Clear Conscience

Clear

Struggling through the years

Watching yourself live in constant fears ,

Emerging from the unwanted moat

Felt the gloat coming from the throat

 

A new chapter begun,

It is never-ending, you

can’t rid the shun

remnants of struggle backfired ,

battling the desires

 

Just one thing you aimed ,

Clear conscience to reclaim

Never wanting to be the part

of world game

How I wish the ‘overcame’

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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After watching many ongoing political debates in India , I have always enjoyed watching offbeat but complex social issues bought up by shows like ‘We the People’ or  ‘Big Fight’ .

 Wedlock to Deadlock was one among such debates which I thoroughly enjoyed watching . Should 50% marital rights be given to the women during the time of Divorce ? What about the inherited property ? The debate started off lightly with several issues coming out . Barkha Dutt as usual had chosen an excellent debate panel . 

Divorce in a country like India has always been  considered a dreadful word . A social stigma !!!!

Several issues were discussed by the panel members starting from where women had helped the husband financially and was left penniless during the divorce, to the lawyers coming up with cases where a divorce couple are a part of joint family , so how the parting of the money should be considered? , Many interesting cases arose from audience panel : Where the women was beaten and thrown out of the house when pregnant (a girl child issue) , on the counter view a man being falsely accused in (attempt to  murder charges , dowry…etc ) by the wife when he decided to part ,due to incompatibility. The wife then becoming a U.S citizen and demanding alimony and not allowing the father to meet their daughter. Another audience asking why a simple communication won’t suffice and why the state is given so much power. Divorce finally been considered a tamasha in India  where they get locked up in litigation .

India being a land of villages , rural population is often neglected in such issues , to start something from scratch, leaving the husband , is difficult for rural women .The focus also shifted to equal rights and towards woman empowerment  and children to be considered a priority .  Solutions to make a women more self-reliant was discussed upon. Be it urban or rural-the livelihood and time frame of the marriage holds an important stake . If women are able to start-up on own then she should ….(it marks the beginning of self-reliance) , at the same time job opportunities should be provided to less fortunate .

Jaya Jaitley one of the panel members ended with a positive note  by telling : We should go into making strong marriages along with strong laws .

The amendments in laws are must . But a country with such diversity in all aspects , including divorce cases , which law would really equalize the matter ? That’s a big question to ponder upon .

People can share their thoughts and reviews  !!!!!!!!

CAN IT BE THAT SIMPLE

3IDIOTS

 

To the Indians this is a character which is quite famous to you . To the NON-Indians this is ‘Raju Rastogi’ a famous hindi movie character from a blockbuster movie 3 idiots . The image attached to this blog is the scene where he is giving interview for an engineering job. He is in wheelchair because he tried to commit suicide ,rusticated by the principal due to indecency. Still he managed somehow to turn out for the interview .

The whole point in telling this was : During the interview when asked about his accident , he bluntly recited his suicidal fling and expressed his fears facing the interview . The panel got impressed by his honesty and straight way handed over his appointment letter. Reel and Real are different aspects. Before facing an interview starting from questions like ‘Tell me something about yourself’ to ‘where do you see yourself down the 5 year’ , the questions have to be answered in a very cautious and precise manner . A set of rules are followed to avoid a pitfall. But the fact is it should actually go in a flow how depicted in the movie. Really how much does the rules actually help us?

The more you try to be someone else , more complicated and unsure you feel about yourself. Many books are also written on body language . And the way human psychology is explained through it is spectacular . But sometimes sitting with your legs cross can plainly imply ,you comfortable sitting with the position . The formal attire is given a huge hue and cry. Definitely it throws a professional image and makes you feel entering a corporate world, On the contrary eminent people like Mark Zuckerberg and Steve Jobs have flaunted themselves in their cool blue jeans .

If you be yourself (as a whole ) during the interview , the process could go more smoothly and scope for improvements might increase .

Guess the situation is quite hypocritical where some rules ought to be followed . As I got to face interviews in the forthcoming events , I would try my best to apply the mixture of the ethics and my ideologies . And ya for the bloggers who haven’t watched the movie , don’t waste time , endless popcorn wouldn’t suffice for it. Enjoy the fun !!!!